12 December 2011


assalamualaikum. currently otak tepu banyak sangat soalan intermediate accounting kene buat. lagi sakit bila calculator buat hal. even ade 2 calculator tapi dua-dua kehabisan bateri. macam janji plak diorang tu. ahh. geram. but then fikir-fikir balik, takkan sebab takde calculator, taknak siapkan keje ye tak? di mana ada kemahuan di situ ade jalan. stop making excuses which will only make you down.

macam blh relate with our everyday lives jugak la kan. if takde kawan nak teman lunch, takkan nk berlapar sampai malam? if takde exam or quiz, takkan taknak study? Allah always there, He will always show us the right way, only if we deserve it. just nk cakap i need a calculator now. tu je. panjang pulak mengarut oh. okay. goto to go. salam :)

calculator moden :p

05 December 2011


assalamualaikum. anger. ni memang sifat mazmumah betol la. and hot-tempered person memang susah nk deal with kan. ouchhh pedasnya. ni just reminder utk diri sendiri tp kadang-kadang lupa so better i post it here. td dk google2 then find bnda alah ni kt wordpress ni. memang straight copy and paste. think :)

Anger: 10 ways to defeat it….

1 – Seek refuge with Allah from the Devil (ANGER AND WRATH.) :

When someone is angry, mad, and reaches a state of having wrath against any person, he should make a special Du’a. In doing so he will cool down . It is reported that the Messenger of Allah said (narrated by Sulaiman Ibn Sard and reported by Bukhari and Muslim) that while Sulaiman was with the Prophet , two persons were blaming each other. The face of one became red and his jugular veins swelled. the Prophet said. I know a statement if he or she say’s it then the person with anger will cool down.
The person with anger should say : “I SEEK REFUGE IN ALLAH FROM SATAN THE OUTCAST.
Sulayman bin Sard narrated:
“I was sitting with the Prophet, when two men began slandering one another. One of them was red in the face, and the veins on his neck were standing out. The Prophet said: “I know a word which, if he were to say it, what he feels would go away. If he said: “I seek refuge with Allah from the Devil,” what he feels would go away.’”
['Fath al-Bari'; 6/337]
The Messenger of Allah said:
“If a man gets angry and says: “I seek refuge with Allah,” his anger will go away.”
['Sahih al-Jami'; # 695]

2 – Remain silent:

The Messenger of Allah said:
“If any of you becomes angry, let him keep silent.”
['Sahih al-Jami'; # 693]

3- Sit down or lie down:

“Abu Dharr was taking his camels to drink at a trough that he owned, when some other people came along and said to one another: “Who can compete with Abu Dharr in bringing animals to drink and make his hair stand on end?” A man said: “I can.” So, he brought his animals and competed with Abu Dharr and ended up breaking the trough.Abu Dharr was standing when he saw this, so, he sat down, then he laid down. Someone asked him: “O Abu Dharr, why did you sit down then lie down?” He said: “The Messenger of Allah said: “If any of you becomes angry and he is standing, let him sit down, so that his anger will go away. If iit does not go away, let him lie down.”
[Reported in the 'Musnad' of Ahmad (5/152) and 'Sahih al-Jami' (694)]
al-Imam al-Khattabi said:
“One who is standing is in a position to strike and destroy, while the one who is sitting is less likely to do that, and the one who is lying down can do neither. It is possible that the Prophet told the angry person to sit down or lie down so that he would not do something that he would later regret, and Allah Knows best.”
['Ma'alim as-Sunan'; 5/141]

4 – Smile:

By looking from the advise given by our beloved Prophet Muhammed we shouldn’t become anger and furious. If we remember the advise and saying of our beloved Prophet Muhammed then the person becoming angry will control his anger.
Anas bin Malik narrated:
“I was walking with the Messenger of Allah, and he was wearing a Najrani cloak with a rough collar. A bedouin came and seized him roughly by the edge of his cloak, and I saw the marks left on his neck by the collar. Then the bedouin ordered him to give him some of the wealth of Allah that he had. The Prophet turned to him and smiled, then ordered that he should be given something.”
['Fath al-Bari'; 10/375]
Anas: (Allah be pleased with him) reported that the messenger of Allah Muhammad said:
“Who so takes up his tongue as treasure Allah will keep his secrets concealed and who so restrains his anger Allah will with hold his punishment on the resurrection day and who so ascribes excuse to Allah will accept his excuse.So by reading this we should refrain from becoming anger. Because anger destroys one faith. The person in anger forgets where he is and says anything which he regrets after.”

5 – Remember the advice of the Prophet:

Abu Hurayrah narrated:
“A man said to the Prophet: “Advise me.” He said: “Do not become angry.” The man repeated his request several times, and each time the Prophet said to him: “Do not become angry.”
['Fath al-Bari'; 10/456]
According to another narration, the man later said:
“I thought about what the Prophet said, and I realized that anger combines all kinds of evil.”
[Reported in the 'Musnad' of Ahmad; 5/373]

6 – Remember the high status of those who control themselves:

The Messenger of Allah said:
“The strong man is not the one who can overpower others. Rather, the strong man is the one who controls himself when he gets angry.”
[Reported in the 'Musnad' of Ahmad; 2/236, and it is authentic]
The Messenger of Allah also said:
“The strongest man is the one who, when he gets angry and his face reddens and his hackles rise, is able to defeat his anger.”
['Sahih al-Jami'; # 3859]
Anas bin Malik narrated :
“The Messenger of Allah passed by some people who were wrestling. He asked: “What is this?” They said: “So-and-so is the strongest; he can beat anybody.” The Messenger of Allah then said: “Shall I not tell you who is even stronger then him? The man who, when he is mistreated by another, controls his anger, has defeated his own devil and the devil of the one who made him angry.”
['Fath al-Bari'; 10/519]
The Messenger of Allah said:
“Do not become angry, and Paradise is yours.”
['Sahih al-Jami'; # 7374]
The Messenger of Allah said:
“Whoever controls his anger at the time when he has the means to act upon it, Allah will call him before all of mankind on the Day of Resurrection, and will let him choose of the Hur al-’Ayn whoever he wants.”
[Reported by Abu Dawud (4777), and it is in 'Sahih al-Jami' (6518)]

8 – Remember that resisting anger is one of the signs of righteousness:

{“And march forth in the way to forgiveness from your Lord, and for a Paradise as wide as the heavens and the earth, prepared for the righteous; those who spend in prosperity and in adversity, repress anger, and pardon men. Verily, Allah loves the good-doers.”}
[Sourate N°3 The Family of Imran Al 'Imran Aya n°134]

9 – Submit to reminders:

Ibn ‘Abbas narrated:
“A man sought permission to speak to ‘Umar bin al-Khattab, then he said: “O Ibn al-Khattab, you are not giving us much and you are not judging fairly between us.” ‘Umar was so angry that he was about to attack the man, but al-Hurr bin Qays – who was one of those present – said: “O Commander of the Believers! Allah said to His Prophet: {“Show forgiveness, enjoin what is good, and turn away from the foolish.”} [al-A'raf; 199], and this man is one of the foolish.” By Allah, ‘Umar could go no further after al-Hurr had recited this verse to him, as he a man who was careful to adhere to the Book of Allah.”
['Fath al-Bari'; 4/304]
…as opposed to how one of the hypocrites reacted when one of the Companions said to him: “Seek refuge with Allah from the Devil,” So, he replied: “Do you think I am crazy? Go away!”
['Fath al-Bari'; 1/465]

10 – Remember the bad effects of anger:

‘Alqamah bin Wa’il narrated:
My father said to me: “I was sitting with the Prophet, when a man came to him leading another man by a rope. He said: “O Messenger of Allah, this man killed my brother.” The Messenger of Allah asked him, “Did you kill him?” He said: “Yes, I killed him.” He asked: “How did you kill him?” He said: “He and I were hitting a tree to make the leaves fall for animal feed, and then he insulted me, so I struck him on the side of the head with an axe and killed him.”
['Sahih Muslim'; # 1307]

03 December 2011

mukhayyam khariji

assalamualaikum. tiba-tiba buat post di pagi hari. ouch! memang la jarang dapat stay up macam ni. konon nk buat assignment tp bila bukak laptop memang la agak terpesong sedikit dari tujuan asal. tkpe la. insyaAllah blh share benda bermanfaat di sini :)

last week, 26-28 november, dgn rela paksanya aq join mukhayyam khariji organized by vim. akak usrah yg ajak. mula-mula memang malas jugak nk join tapi last-last join jugak la. sorg je kawan yg join, nabilah huda. die memang awal-awal dh post pasal ni. aq je yg terkedek-kedek malas nk meng-update belog. mukhayyam ni actually ala-ala camping la tapi camping Islamic gitu. and before g mukhayyam ni ramai gk la cakap benda alah ni best. so, tkpe la. join je la kan nk tau best ke tak. kite buat ala-ala format journal la ye. sempoi-sempoi saja. hehe.

Day 1
mula-mula gather kt masjid uia then gerak g bus stop. memang la tak penah lg join program kene naik bas then g putra then naik lrt camni. exhausted jugak la nasib baik luggage yg besar gedabak tu ade akak tlg hantar ngn kereta die. then by lrt kitorg smpai kt damai. from there, kene jalan lagi! dh la perut tgh lapar, then kene jalan plak. finally smpai kat surau ansar. before this memang dk imagine cmne la agaknye rupe surau tu, rupe-rupenye die ala-ala rumah la jgk. ade dapur segale. comfortable-lah.

dh sampai then solat zohor then lunch together-gether dalam dulang. aq ni memang lemah cket bab-bab mkn gune dulang ni tapi dh lapar makan je la kan. nk story one by one memang tak habis sampai esk. start program dgn slot jahiliyyah modern by kak rokiah. blh la share sikit mksud jahiliyyah moden tu ape ye. from my understanding la, jahiliyyah means tak tahu, not bodoh. msyarakat zaman skrg ni diibaratkan jahiliyyah moden sbb if zaman before nabi Muhammad SAW, mereka dikatakan jahiliyyah because they do not know about Islam, that's why Allah sent Prophet to guide them. as for us today, we already receive guidance from Allah thru Quran and Sunnah, but we still doing the same thing like what our ancestors do before this. why? zaman jahiliyyah dh datang balik? even worse? yes. maybe blh la compare situation dulu and skrg. mcm dulu, org jahiliyyah tanam baby girl hidup-hidup kn? but they tanam elok-elok je. and diorg dimaafkan if diorg tak tau. same like khalifah abu bakar. even die penah tanam his daughter hidup-hidup pun, but then die repent. but today, org bkn stakat buang baby merata-rata, ade yg snggup plak bakar nad etc etc. nauzubillah.

slot malam plak from kak anfal tapi tak ingat ape tajuk die. akak tu cakap pasal ciri-ciri umat zaman sekarang yg mane tk payah nk story kt sini sbb everything dh blh dilihat di sekeliling kite. nk specific lagi blh google about what is happening around us. thats why we have to change. not only change but also istiqamah. badan perlukan makanan and same goes to our heart. santapan rohani. from this slot jugak dapat satu istilah baru. bulatan gembira. oh usrah rupanya. usrah ni like one of the simplest way to learn about tarbiah la. o yeah. tarbiah tu macam pendidikan Islam yg mane we learn everything about Islam and also practice what we have learnt, to be better Muslims insyaAllah.

Day 2
pagi tu ade qiam then around pukul 7 kitorg gerak g nur lembah bestari, ulu yam. first slot by kak izzah. she mainly talks about pemuda. oh lupe nk mention theme mukhayyam ni ialah pemuda kahfi. from this slot, dpt la faham what is meant by pemuda kahfi sbnrnye. boleh rujuk surah Al-Kahfi. and finally i got one meaningful verse from Quran which i treasure most. before this penah dgr but tak sure sangat.

"Wahai orang yang beriman! Apabila dikatakan kepadamu: "Berilah kelapangan di majlis-majlis," maka lapangkanlah, nescaya Allah akan memberikan kelapangan untukmu" -Al-Mujadilah, ayat 11.

maybe blh kupas verse kt atas ni next post insyaAllah. then second slot, overall talk on adab majlis ilmu. several of them, start with Bismillah, berinfaq before start majlis and berlapang-lapang dlm majlis.

"Sesiapa yang berjalan untuk menuntut ilmu, maka Allah akan mempermudahkan jalannya ke syurga."

on the evening kitorg ade jungle trekking. mmg dh lame tak join jungle trekking. last jugle trekking mase drjah dua. almost 12 years back. and time malam plak ade video show, night walk and tafakkur alam.

Day 3
ni last day but still byk jgk la slot by akak-akak tp time ni memang ngantuk sangat so memang tak fokus sgt. ade slot ala-ala sharing moment yg memang sinonim la dgn vim ni. mmg if ade prgram under vim, biasenye ade sharing moment. last skali ade majlis penutup. alhamdullillah my group, named sumayyah won the first palce, as the best group. dapat hamper. tu la part paling best. hehe. then after zohor and lunch ktorg gerak balik uia.

so, overall mukhayyam khariji ni okay la. for those who are looking for something that will give impact in your life, u better go to this kind of program. bukan selalu pon. even busy dgn assignment, quiz, midterm etc etc, ape salahnya curi sedikit masa utk join this kind of program. insyaAllah. same-same la kite bermuhasabah. salam :)